what will you feel if it is you?

I live in an era, where dating relationship has higher priority than parents.

when things in relationship go wrong, you can release your anger to everyone, especially your parents.

at least that is what I observed.

after looking back to my past, I realized I did that too.

luckily the distance between me and my parents slapped me out of it, and makes me realize how they are so important in my life and how they long to be loved by their children.

unfortunately, I still see this problem happening.

I can't stand people who are not respectful to their parents.

not to say that he/she does not being respectful to his/her parents all the time, but in some cases, he/she does.

and the case is the problem in the relationships that person has sometimes.

I do agree that the overly affection and care of parents are sometimes annoying.

asking multiple times in a day won't help to solve the problem.

BUT, do you actually realize that your parents are just worried about you?

especially when you are far from them, and they can't hug you to calm you down.

do you think how will you feel if you as a parent, and your child is behaving that way towards you?

you care for your child, but your child does not seem to see it that way.

you don't think you do any wrong by asking your child whether their problem has been solved.

and I think it is not wrong at all.

at this age, you may have realize that your parents can leave you someday.

do you want that day to be filled full of regrets?

you are too busy with your life, that you forgot that your parents are getting old.

they need to be loved as how they have always loved, and will always love you.

I am begging you,

before you reacts to your parents' "annoying" care,

think how will you feel as a parent if your child is acting that way towards you.

I don't care what you do to your friends when you are having problems or bad days.

but please, don't release it on your parents.

love them, as how you want to be loved by everyone.

try to fit in their shoes.

it may be too big for you now, but someday you will wear it too.

love,

vee