changing.

found this while browsing thru my old emails.
sent this to someone before, and never posted it up.
and after re-reading it, I think it's worth sharing for :)

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to have a relationship with someone gives you a benefit.
to know yourself better, with the help of someone special, who is willingly to help you change and become a better person.
bear with your bad side, let you know about it, and talk to you nicely about it and how WE can fix it :)
acquaintances and normal friends, if they happen to see your bad side, will just walk away from you without letting you know about it.
by having someone special, they let you know and learn how you usually interact with others and how they feel about it.

changing does not mean that we have to be an ideal person according to that someone special.
but becoming a better person without having to put on our mask, with a purpose of pleasing others only.
changing, with a motivation to make our beloved ones happy, not just our dearest someone special.
because when that someone special leaves, we will still have our beloved ones as a motivation for us to become a better person.

Theodor Seuss Geisel said, "Do not cry because it is over. Smile because it happened."
ending a relationship is never pleasing to people, but cherish the relationship because it has given us lessons :)
at the end of a relationship, we will think where we did wrong, an action of unknowingly self-introspection.
if we finally found our bad side, we will try to change, and by doing that, we eventually will become a better person, who is worth of someone better that the previous.
worth of someone special who will bear with you, even in your worst condition :)
when it happens, then forever is theirs.

thanks for making me a better person.
vee.